Hello, I am back after, of course, a long gap. So I have decided to make a lasting impact on all of you.
For a long time, I have searched for a single answer to my insecurities that mainly emerge by virtue of my craving for others attention.Whether it be in class room to get the attention of your teacher, or near notice board where you want your 5th or 6th rank to be noticed by your peers, or be it in a party where you want that smart boy to notice you............you are always longing for attention and it is often intense, it makes you act in a very different way than what you actually are. Some times you win and sometimes you lose. But this longing for attention and recognition will only grow even if you win or lose. Let me make it clear.
For instance, in a class room, you want yourself to be recognized as the topper and you did it, your craving does not end there, later you go to a competition, there too it starts in your mind that you have to be recognized as a topper. It sometimes makes you take the wrong path too, like you may try to show some of your friends as inferiors so that you will be seen as a superior.
As long as its a class room affair its fine, there will be little repercussions like you will not have more friends, more often they will not be true friends, you will not be able to accept the success of your peers which will destroy your own self eventually and all that...........
But when it comes to craving for love and acceptance from some one whom you like, it will have dangerous results,. May that be a craving for friendship or for love or just their caring for you, it will destroy your self. It will hit hard on your self-identity and confidence. It makes you look small before that person, that itself is the greatest harm to yourself. It will always make you look yourself from others eyes as if you are blind.
This is a condition that every human faces at some point in their life time. Some recognize it early and some late. It is not wrong to fall for someone or something but you must always take a conscious decision on whom should you fall for. It needs you recognize your potential. For that to happen, you need to start loving not the world, but your own self. The moment you care about your self, adore your self, it does not hurt when a tiny soul ridicules you on some insignificant point like- you are not fair or you have got tiny eyes etc., You will start to understand your specialty, your uniqueness, and finally your purpose in this world. You will start nurturing your strengths, working on your weaknesses, after all, you are in love with you....This love lets you spread your wings as wider as they can spread. This lets you fly as higher as you can fly. When you are in love with you, then no small stone can crush the sapling of hope in you nor can a boulder do it. You will not complain about the big tree which hinders sunshine from reaching you but start to accept it and learn to take a turn so that you reach the sunshine. Now you are not someone to blame others for failures nor you blame yourself...after all love knows only loving so you will accept your failure and work harder to realize your dreams. More than anything, now you are a bird freed from the cage of craving and a bird flying high with wings far spread ...unknowingly spreading love along the path that you travel...................aim to be such a bird .......know your true self..love your true self......All the very best.
F.L.Y: FIRST LOVE YOUR SELF.
bye.
For a long time, I have searched for a single answer to my insecurities that mainly emerge by virtue of my craving for others attention.Whether it be in class room to get the attention of your teacher, or near notice board where you want your 5th or 6th rank to be noticed by your peers, or be it in a party where you want that smart boy to notice you............you are always longing for attention and it is often intense, it makes you act in a very different way than what you actually are. Some times you win and sometimes you lose. But this longing for attention and recognition will only grow even if you win or lose. Let me make it clear.
For instance, in a class room, you want yourself to be recognized as the topper and you did it, your craving does not end there, later you go to a competition, there too it starts in your mind that you have to be recognized as a topper. It sometimes makes you take the wrong path too, like you may try to show some of your friends as inferiors so that you will be seen as a superior.
As long as its a class room affair its fine, there will be little repercussions like you will not have more friends, more often they will not be true friends, you will not be able to accept the success of your peers which will destroy your own self eventually and all that...........
But when it comes to craving for love and acceptance from some one whom you like, it will have dangerous results,. May that be a craving for friendship or for love or just their caring for you, it will destroy your self. It will hit hard on your self-identity and confidence. It makes you look small before that person, that itself is the greatest harm to yourself. It will always make you look yourself from others eyes as if you are blind.
This is a condition that every human faces at some point in their life time. Some recognize it early and some late. It is not wrong to fall for someone or something but you must always take a conscious decision on whom should you fall for. It needs you recognize your potential. For that to happen, you need to start loving not the world, but your own self. The moment you care about your self, adore your self, it does not hurt when a tiny soul ridicules you on some insignificant point like- you are not fair or you have got tiny eyes etc., You will start to understand your specialty, your uniqueness, and finally your purpose in this world. You will start nurturing your strengths, working on your weaknesses, after all, you are in love with you....This love lets you spread your wings as wider as they can spread. This lets you fly as higher as you can fly. When you are in love with you, then no small stone can crush the sapling of hope in you nor can a boulder do it. You will not complain about the big tree which hinders sunshine from reaching you but start to accept it and learn to take a turn so that you reach the sunshine. Now you are not someone to blame others for failures nor you blame yourself...after all love knows only loving so you will accept your failure and work harder to realize your dreams. More than anything, now you are a bird freed from the cage of craving and a bird flying high with wings far spread ...unknowingly spreading love along the path that you travel...................aim to be such a bird .......know your true self..love your true self......All the very best.
F.L.Y: FIRST LOVE YOUR SELF.
bye.
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